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Fighting Defensiveness in Relationships
Discover how replacing defensiveness with accountability can open the door to collaboration, reduce tension, and build lasting emotional safety in your relationship.
Fighting Criticism in Relationships
Learn how to replace criticism with empathy using gentle start-ups and "I" statements to build emotional safety and strengthen your relationship.
The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse: Relationship Patterns That Damage Trust
Learn about the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, the toxic communication patterns that erode trust in relationships, and discover practical ways to shift them.
Cognitive Processing Part 2: Learning to Say Something More Accurate
In part one of this blog, I shared information about hindsight bias in the context of trauma. I presented some thoughts to consider to begin to challenge this coping mechanism, and today those challenges will be expanded.
Cognitive Processing Part 1: Hindsight Bias in Trauma
Hindsight bias, a cognitive mechanism that discards inaccurate information and embraces correct information, can be an advantage in our memory.
How Does Gratitude Increase Overall Well-Being
Did you know that gratitude fosters connection? It boosts positivity and trains our brains to notice and appreciate the little things in life.
Let’s Talk About Unprocessed Emotions
We can put a brave face on the outside, and hide from others any number of emotions happening inside us, but when those emotions escape in the form of crying "seemingly out of no where", that's a lot harder to hide. It is more than just inconvenient. It can be down right confusing.
Why We Should Embrace Change
Whether you make new year's resolutions or you reject them, this is a time of year when such things cross our minds.
Understanding Rejection Sensitivity and How to Manage Emotional Responses
Being able to take criticism or rejection in stride isn’t just a lovely idea, it’s a superpower. At least, that’s how it may seem to someone who experiences rejection sensitivity.
Why We Can Feel Responsible Even When We’ve Done Nothing Wrong?
What causes a person to feel guilty when they have done nothing wrong?
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